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The Way I See It

Left Edge Theatre’s ‘Motherf– with the Hat’ is funny, heartrending

By Woody Weingarten

“That ain’t my hat,” he growls, and gets fired up to do battle—with her, the owner of the headgear and his own inner demons.

The difference between Romeo and Juliet and the star-crossed Puerto Rican lovers in Stephen Adly Guirgis’ “The Motherf—- with the Hat,” onstage in a Left Edge Theatre production in Santa Rosa, is that Shakespeare’s tragedy focuses on unadulterated young love, while “Mother” is seen through a prism of love desecrated by drugs, alcohol and sexual cheating.

“Motherf—-,” which packs a wallop, is devilishly funny in the first act (an early scene has Jackie sniffing their hand-me-down bed to find smells of betrayal). Yet it’s a poignant and heartrending unfunny drama in the second (“We’re broken,” insists Veronica).

This tragicomedy can’t help but make you think. Each of the dysfunctional, multidimensional

characters—all perhaps difficult to relate to for those who didn’t grow up with their kind of people or toyed with their kind of twisted morality—has complex depth, despite the torrent of f-bombs.

L-R, Danny Bañales and Mercedes Murphy appear in Left Edge Theatre’s “The Motherf—- with the Hat” onstage in Santa Rosa through Feb. 22, 2025. (Courtesy Dana Hunt/Left Edge Theatre via Bay City News)

They lie while craving honesty. All swear with abandon and relish sex as if it were the only life-force worth considering. All the while, they’re on mostly futile quests for loving relationships.

The play offers philosophical tidbits while spewing language of the streets. Yet there’s still room for a line like, “It’s funny how a person can be more than one thing, ain’t it?” Or for a woman to describe her man as having “a PhD in self-loathing” or to say about herself, “I’ve got about 10 minutes more of gravity before it all comes crashing down.”

Directed by Serena Elize Flores, The Left Edge cast is notable.

Danny Bañales artfully, and with deft slapstick, plays Jackie, a parolee alcoholic who struggles physically and mentally. Mercedes Murphy passionately portrays Veronica as someone who can’t help going past the red lines society has imposed on her. Isiah Carter is robust as Ralph D, the sensitive, 12-step sponsor who befriends Jackie. Grace Kent as Victoria, Ralph D’s frustrated wife, is filled with dichotomies. Sergio Diaz is Jackie’s gay, sex-addicted cousin Julio, a guy hell-bent on proving his manhood.

The 105-minute (plus-intermission) show is a rarity. It features fleeting male nudity and avoids female nudity. But its mainstay is naked emotion. In the final analysis, that’s nothing to laugh at.

“The Motherf—- with the Hat” continues through Feb. 22 at Left Edge Theatre, 528 Seventh St., Santa Rosa. Tickets are $33 to $44 at leftedgetheatre.com.  

This article was first published on LocalNewsMatters.org, a nonprofit site supported by Bay City News Foundation http://www.baycitynews.org/contact/.

Sherwood “Woody” Weingarten, a longtime member of the San Francisco Bay Area Theater Critics Circle, can be contacted by email at voodee@sbcglobal.net or on his websites, https://woodyweingarten.com and https://vitalitypress.com